Sunday, August 07, 2016

Best Friends *Forever (*depends)


Born in the 1980s, I have seen best of many different cultural changes. One interesting aspect that I feel has been changing silently is ‘FRIENDSHIP’.

During the 80s, I was used to seeing, friends & best friends. You had the same set of friends at school, tuition, cricket match, homework, birthday party, etc. In fact, there used to be this thing ‘tu apne group ka hai, unke saath mat ghum (you are a part of this group, don’t hang out with others)’.

Slowly came the 90s and with Indian economy opening up, many minds, pockets & attitudes also started to change. Well, friends were still friends, but one started having Tuition friends, School friends, friends with the best gadgets, video games, it became paramount how one shows his/her friendship with innumerable Archie's & Hallmark cards or cups or teddys…

Then something happened once the Millennium kicked in. The internet chat cafes took the momentum of friendships to a new level. The 3310s, 3330s, 6600s of Nokia had penetrated the lives of the young minds, with late night SMSes, MMSes. And as if this was just the tip of the iceberg the mid era of the millennia bought ORKUT to the fingertips… Friendship had now started to grow in the virtual & digital space. The Six degrees of separation theory was finally taking a concrete shape, but the test of friendship slowly started to be determined by the number of scraps, testimonials & friends in the list.

Things started to speed up & bought the new mega machine of making friends & connecting with them called Facebook. Stories of new friendships, new connections, puppy love, naughty love & all sorts of groups popped up. The gifts that friends exchanged earlier got replaced by watermelons, cows & strawberries on the farm. Facebook started to be like the hoarding where people began to display their lives, to get much-craved attention, to feel like a celebrity, to show off to their friends & wanting more. Friendship now was seen with people who react to things in my life when I put it out to display. A nice picture once uploaded if did not get likes & comments from the friends was good enough to create a rift but never show off.

Well, that was sooo 2010, now with half of the decade passing off, friendships are now defined in new ways and manner. Best Friends are now BFFs or BAE (short form of BABE, trust me I am not kidding!!!), friends in need became FWB (friends with benefits) & close friends became FUBUs (fuck buddies). Snapchats, Tinders, Instagram, FBs of the world are taking connecting, expressing, sharing & creating memories at a completely new level.

Now that where my theory begins, with the rapid change in culture & value system we should be ready to the new age of friendship & that is ‘MUTUALISM’ as in social mutualism. Let’s not be judgmental about it, but times are changing, behaviors, patterns & our perspective to feelings are changing. Earlier we just made friends & friendship was all that mattered & moving forward we shall choose them & all that will matter would be how can we both be beneficial to each other. It’s not being mean or selfish but it shall be all about ‘I don’t wanna waste my time & energy’. That brings us to an interesting question, ‘Friendship is pure feeling and friends are the relatives that we make on our own then how come it can come to this?’ well the answer has always been in front of us, the truth is we needed friends & we will need friends but what will change is the ways & reasons. Earlier our reach was limited hence we were contented with a limited group of people we interacted, we were contented with our thoughts & our perspective, this made us explore more in few set of people and that made us know each other a lot more; whereas in last 30 years, the reach is exponential & the amount of exposure to different perspectives, likings, idiosyncrasies have reached beyond borders across the globe. Now we don't invest a lot of time in one person, but we invest time in finding newer ones. Knowing someone just by the surface is more than enough.

To sum up, in few years when you ask the younger lot about who are they hanging out with their answer shall be, “No one, in particular, he/she & I like a MUTUAL genre of music so we just jam.”



Tuesday, July 12, 2016

Just Do (Mimic) it.... Seriously???


Nike India has finally joined the bandwagon of brands bitten by the new buzzword ‘Content creation in video format’. Before Nike it was Reebok that roped in Kangana Ranaut with #fittofight & central idea of how she fought the odds & asking people to tell their story (Such a unique concept, isn’t it?).



Coming back to Nike. It has a catchy number ‘Da Da Ding’ song, athletes like Joshna Chinappa, Shweta Hakke, Rani Rampal, Gabriella Demetriades, Ishita Malaviya, Jaie Bhadane, Naina Mansukhani, Swetha Subbiah, Jyoti Ann Burrett, Tanvie Hans and Bollywood actress Deepika Padukone & many other performers living up to the spirit of the song. To add on, it’s a very nicely shot video. (But that’s it)
I mean at a logic level the video seems a big con.
> First, how many of the athletes, in the video can even afford a Nike?  
> Second, if Nike is so passionate about Women empowerment plus sports, what kind of support have they bought on the table for these players? Where is that story?
> Lastly, if you want to create content for the Indian market, at least don’t rip it off (i mean inspired) from Under Armour. (Surprised??? See both the videos below)





Now addressing the elephant in the room, ‘Content marketing’.
I think a majority of Marketeers have a misconception about content marketing.
First of all, the key mistake is that most of the marketing teams make is that they create content which supports the brand or its products. Hence the content is created mainly because someone asked it to & not because it meets a customer need. Lastly, after creating content what is the objective? Just to trend or to add value??? Pls understand the core for any communication is Insight, with Strategy / Core thought as out layer & this helps to form the central idea of the campaign. From the central idea stems various relevant media amplifications in its nature. One of the ways of communication is Content marketing & in the core lies its relevance to its customers. Sadly, with only the online video, Nike has just created a buzz on social media that shall be forgotten in sometime.
Lets take the case of Reebok. They have a story of a celebrity – OK. So? The celebrity asks people to submit their story. Really? Guys, it’s a done & dusted idea. What worked 5 years back is already ancient. Secondly, what will you do once you collect the stories? Publish, trend, give them rewards? Was the objective only to trend & get traffic or do something more important?

Back to Nike. The theme song will trend. People will share & repost & that shall complete the media objective. But how relevant shall be the content in coming months. Was this idea confused with the term ‘Strategy’? All I hope that this is a part of big picture & not the picture itself.

Monday, July 04, 2016

Hello from the other side – Eid Mubarak yaara


My stint in South East gave me an opportunity to meet, know & mingle with people from the other side of our fence and I must say that the experience was nothing less than ‘awesome’.

Having lunches, going on drives, Urdu vs Hindi, PJs, Bollywood, Media, never ending banters were soo similar & yet unique at many levels. At one point of time all you feel is it was just the fence (mental fence) that was dividing us.  

Trust me, nothing can beat the feeling of watching an India – Pakistan cricket match with a Pakistani buddy & sing 'Mauka Mauka!!!"

They are same like us, similar ideas, enthusiasm, amazing creativity, etc.
Here are some amazing heart touching Pakistani ads about the feeling of Ramadan & Eid




The below one is the most beautiful ad & also it reminded me of a very local funny line, "Yeh kya beta? Sirf Samosa!!!"
an ad



With the month of Ramadan coming to an end & Eid round the corner, I would love to wish all my friends, “Eid Mubarak” “Selamat Hari Raya”

Thursday, June 30, 2016

Google – From a noun to a verb



Nearly a decade back, as students we used to hear, “Some brands don’t advertise as they don’t need to.” One brand that was a unanimous example was GOOGLE.
However, somewhere in 2013 – 14, I saw a heart touching, slice of life story of 2 friends. To my surprise is was content created by Google to promote Google.



That made me question, why did Google advertise? Why a brand that had transitioned from a NOUN to a VERB & had maintained its market dominance for more than a decade suddenly advertise?
Well, this is what I think.
Google is a search engine. It helps you to search information; relevant information to be precise
Currently, markets are flooded with smartphones.
Smartphones support many different applications that make our life easier
Applications range from social network, games, travel booking, food ordering, yellow pages, etc.
That’s where Google’s far-sighted vision witnessed the competition.

Now if we see our mobile phone and let’s say we want to order food, our step by step process shall be:
Click on an app that delivers food à search the restaurant nearby à select menu à order
How about looking for a dance instructor?
Click on an app (eg. Urban Clap, Just Dial, etc.) à Search for the requirement à send the enquiry à receive a quote à Hooray, job done.
You see in this whole scenario, what we miss is Google’s part. Now we don’t need Google to Google all these things. To book a flight we do not Google, we use the Travel app, to know the weather we now no longer Google but we use the weather app. To search details on movies or booking tickets or to order gifts we don’t use Google, but use the apps specifically built for this. This results in Google losing its Share of Search. Earlier if we searched 10 things on Google, today we search may be nearly 7. Now that’s a loss to Google, as brands for those particular categories would not divert all their digital budgets on search but also on other digital media touch points, as the overall number of impressions & clicks go down drastically.
Since, 2014 I have noticed Google coming up with different stories / content to reinstate their relevance in a subtle manner.
Below are some of them

The below ad is a complete opposite of 'Catch them young, watch them grow.' Google capitalized on the technological gap between parents & younger generation. They targeted the large group of parents & older generation who feel that the internet is a difficult thing. These TG are not very adventurous in terms of trying new technology or systems, so how if you teach them just one simple thing 'Log on to Google' or rather go online.  


Recently they have targeted Father's day & the ease of searching details about movies & music. A nice & interesting combo




In the end, I still remember the debate we used to have as fresh grads / interns. Is Google GOD?
Well that is an interesting topic for some other time…


Sunday, June 19, 2016

Happy Hero’s day


Father, Dad, Daddy, Papa, Pa, Abba, Baba, so on & so forth. Today is the day we wish the person who was / is our first hero, our first shoulder, our Santa Claus. But who exactly is a Father?

Dictionary says, ‘a MALE parent’!!!

Whereas, I say a support, a hero, a figure I look upto, someone who was the first person to teach me about giving respect, love. Someone who was the first to teach me to be me, someone who says, “I am there, go ahead try, take risk.”

There are 2 stories below and I feel its time we understand what is really to be a FATHER & thank them.





Happy Father's day to all who are the real DAD to your kid...
Lastly, i would like to sum it up with the below message



Wednesday, June 08, 2016

All ears to 80 years!!!


My grandfather would have been 6 years old when ‘Indian State Broadcasting’ was renamed as ‘All India Radio’ on this day 8th June, 1936, which was renamed as ‘Aakashvani’ in 1956, the year my father was born.

On this day today, AIR completes 80 years of its existence. 80 years on, with 418 stations, AIR is the world’s largest multi-lingual public network.

People born in the 80s’ like me; I think are the last urban born & bred generation who have experienced the Mr. India effect (Hero sirf sunai deta hai, dikhai nahi):)

How many of us remember this signature tune of AIR, which was composed by Walter Kaufmann, then music director of AIR in 1936? There is a nostalgia that I can faintly associate with this; Sunrise, doorbell, milkman, hot cups of tea.

I still remember the imagery where group of people used to surround the man who had a portable radio to listen the cricket commentary by Suresh Saraiya, Sanjay Banerjee Vineet Garg Prem Kumar & Prakash Wakankar

I still remember about the neighbors who used to tune their Murphy’s to listen Surjit Sen or Lotika Ratnam for their news broadcast

I still remember when the family members used to write letters to AIR expressing their views, requesting favorite songs, writing poems, couplets, etc.

I still remember the sound of, “Namaskar, Bhaiyo aur Bheno, Binaca Geetmala mein aapka swagat hai.” The legendary Ameen Sayani.

It’s between the Binaca Geetmala & Mann Ki Baat that the current generation of 80’s has grown up.
Over the years we have shifted from AIR to private radio stations to I Pods, however even now the smile that comes to my face when I hear an unexpected old song over the radio is priceless & it shall be till I turn 80


All I would want to say is Thank You AIR. #80YearsOfAIR

Thank you for the amazing music content.

Thank you for great hosts & presenters.

Thank you for reaching every nook & corner of India.

Thank you for still being consistent with the presentation & format.

Thank you for Amitabh Bachchan :)

Sunday, June 05, 2016

ek SANSKAARI, POLITICALLY CORRECT joke sunau???


As a kid, I remember our jokes used to start with, “Ek Sardar tha…” (No offence to Sardars, but that was the reality). Somehow the mental imagery of Sardars gave the joke a very unique feel & imagination. This thought was shamelessly picked up & exploited by Bollywood; they created stereotypes with the typical roles & clichéd jokes.

Moving to the present I feel that the share of sardar based jokes have been restricted to Santa & Banta & overall share of Sardars in joke have reduced to mere 20% (as in 2 out of every 10 jokes might have them). In today’s age of instant messenger & internet, jokes are race neutral and majorly on celebs, politicians, husband & wife, etc. Like in case of celebs, Alia Bhat, Sonam Kapoor, Alok Nath, Salman Khan, Anushka Sharma, etc. have taken the maximum space on our whatsapp. Talking about Politicians the list can start & end with RaGa (LOL, actually speaking I feel RaGa has eaten the biggest share from the S&B jokes, its like now that imaginary dude has a face).

Internet has also given a platform for new age humour like Videos & Podcasts of Chutki & Shopkeeper & various Stand up performing groups like AIB, TVF, S&G, etc. The best part about their humor is that it does not follow the old pattern of mimicry or joke telling, but instead it picks up stories around us, the eccentric behaviors and the hypocritical social behavior & put forth a humorous take on it. Their format ranges right from, “Ashleel hai yeh launda, taange tod do iski!” to “Hahaha or hmm”

If we understand the basic difference between then & now, earlier it was using an imaginary situation & super imposing on someone (celebs, politicians & Sardars), whereas now it’s using a real life like story / situation / idea & making an imaginary reaction / Point of view on it. Earlier there were limited media like stage performances, audio cassettes & word of mouth, whereas today its internet, stage shows, newer formats of stand ups & of course the viral power of internet. Earlier it was subtleness with ego massage & it came across like, “Sir aapke upar aisi line hai in this manner pls bura mat manna, change kar denge, aap ki jagah ek sardar bol denge, agar aap ko theek na lage”; whereas as now, “Bro, chill maar, its just a joke, bura mat lagana aur agar lage to mat dekh.

However this change has not gone well with a large section of audience, I believe there are 2 key reasons:
  • This change happened too soon. In a span of 20 years, the typical Indian value system has taken a 180 degree turn. The value system that we as kids have been used to or our parents & their generation was used to has not been able to accept the change. As per some sections of society there has to be a certain decorum & how it virals out. For example, if you are on a public platform that is accessible to any of my family member then your content should be such that it can be consumed by them too, as we are not able to restrict the access to information. On the other hand, there is a section of society that have a different outlook & believe that we have a choice, if I like it I shall consume it, if I don’t then I shall condone it, not everything I do in life has to be with family, I have a life outside my family too which is called ‘Personal space’. We all have the right to express ourselves, with a sense of duty that I know what kind of content should be consumed at what place & what manner.
  • Second, we still have some remnants of arse lickers, hypocrites, fence sitters who will throw a match stick & gasoline on the side that makes them ‘COOL’ with a K. They are a confused bunch of people who feel that a joke can kill more people than terrorism, they think a joke can strip of a lady’s or an icon’s dignity worse than a rape, they think a joke can cause worst mental trauma than emotional abuse, discrimination in the name of color, size, race, etc. Their feeling are hurt if someone says anything on their icons, whereas the reality is they speak/do the worst unimaginable things for which that icon never stood for.

Just to put my point of view, we live in a democratic country, the average age of our population is near to 25 & yes, our values our perspective to life has changed & is changing. Adults today are different from adults of 90’s. Laughing on yourself is OK, its OK to take a joke on yourself & not take things too seriously. We all have a choice, if u don’t like it then don’t go for it, be open about your choices, use your common sense & be reasonable. There is a time & place for everything, we cannot have one solution (one kind of humor) that fits all scenario.

Lastly, with all the fanfare going about our culture & sanskriti, I would like to quote the below lines from movie Amar Prem:
  
Kuchh rit jagat kee aisi hai, har ek subah kee sham huyi
Too kaun hai, tera nam hain kya, sita bhi yaha badanam huyi

Hamko jo tane dete hai, ham khoye hain in rang raliyo me
Hamne unako bhi chhup chhup ke aate dekha in galiyo me
Yeh sach hain jhuthe bat nahee tum bolo yeh sach hain naa